7 Reasons Why Men Cheat In Relationships

Today I have decided to bring forth the truth that all ladies ought to know about why men do cheat in a relationship. This is the whole truth. 

Men are always the best people who take good care of their relationship than ladies. Ladies, you should be aware that a man is always on his toe to guard his relationship to be on its stand. 

No man wants to waste his time in a relationship. It is not that I do favor men because I’m one of them, but it is the truth. A man knows he is always going to be responsible for anything that might arise in the future. He knows that he will be responsible for the well-being of the family. A man has the responsibility of ensuring that his family will be in a safe state with sufficient needs.

The point I tried to explain above is about why I said a man will protect his relationship. Men don’t want to waste their time in relationships. Please, don’t confuse a boy and a man. 

A boy will engage in a relationship for fun. His reason might be to show off, to gain sexual pleasures and other reasons might be because of peer pressure. A man is always dedicated to his relationship. 

If you find out a man cheating then it is obvious there is a strong reason why he did so. Such a reason is always hard to explain to a lady. A lady will never understand these reasons. I have decided to speak on behalf of all men on the reasons why men end up cheating in their relationships.

I have gathered some of the reasons why men do cheat in their relationships. Most of the reasons are based on ladies. Ladies are the cause of this infidelity that men get themselves involved in. You will be able to know why ladies are the most cause of all these mistrust do occur in relationships by the reasons I’m going to explain in this post.

Here are the 5 reasons why men do cheat in their relationships.

1. When The Lady Has No Time For The Man.

Men always want to feel loved. They want to spend time with their lovers. I think that is what everyone wants, when a man spends time with his lover, the bond between their relationship increases. 

The more time a lady has with her man the stronger the relationship becomes. Time is a great measure to find out whether someone has feelings for you or not. A person who is in love with you will do anything to make sure he or she spends time with you. No matter how busy someone will be, but if someone really loves you, she will create time for you.

A man will cheat if a lady has no time for him. If a lady does not create time for her man then she must know that she is creating time for another chick to grove with her man. It is very true that sometimes a man will feel that he really needs his lady the most. 

Time like these; when a man is stressed, when a man is annoyed when a man is hurt when a man feels the need him having his lady sexually. These are the more crucial hours that a lady should always avail herself to her man. 

Being honest when a lady keeps on saying she is too busy to meet with me almost every day, it obvious that when another lady gives me more time than I deserve and take good care of me, I won’t hesitate to go along with her.

The ladies have to create time for their lovers if they want them not to cheat on them. A man will feel ashamed to cheat when a lady sacrifices her time in order to please him and then goes against her will. 

He will feel guilty for doing so just because of what the lady sacrifices for him. The opposite of that is that the man will cheat without guilty at all. This is because the lady has nothing to offer to the man. Now ladies have an idea of why men do cheat in relationships.

2. When A Man Finds Out That The Girl Is Dating Is Dormant.

This is another thing that can make a man cheat in a relationship. We all know that a man does a lot of effort to make sure that his lady is always happy. He will do anything to please her. 

The man can wake up and decide to prepare breakfast for his lover. The man can just decide to plan a romantic dinner and plan a picnic or nature walk without the realization of the lady. 

All these are activities that a man does so that he can make his lady happy. This is creativity that keeps the relationship bond stronger. The sweetness of the love does not get exhausted that easily.

You have to understand that if this trend goes on like this; only a man bringing forward such arrangements without the lady having arranged anything, at last, the man will get tired. A man is a human being also. 

For such things to keep going on the lady also have to motivate the man by also trying to make out romantic moves. It will be very bad when the man is always the one involved in such preparations.

What I’m trying to say is that a lady also has to be creative and romantic. When the lady will be artistic too, she will have the ability to keep her man. Her man will always stick around because of recognizing the effort that his lady is doing. 

Now, lets us say that the lady is just there for the sake of moving on with the relationship. A man will always make an effort to keep the relationship going on, but at last, he will also get fatigued. This can happen, especially when the effort is coming from only one end. When the man gets exhausted the sweetness of love in the relationship will start to fade.

The fading of the sweetness will make the man start losing interest in his woman. When it reaches such a point it is very easy for a man to be dragged effortlessly from his woman, when he finds another lady who is more creative than his lover. 

The moment a man gets a lady that is always making an effort to keep the relationship moving, and when the man thinks of his lover who is always dormant it will be very easy for a man to cheat. Men prefer ease to a burden. So, ladies that is something for you to note, be creative and keep your man.

3. When A Man Is Addicted To Sex.

This is another great reason why men cheat in relationships. I want to be honest on this point. A lady may be very active to fulfill her man’s sexual desires. I guess to all ladies that is what they give to prove their deep feelings for their lovers.  

When a lady decides to offer such an expensive gift to a man it means so much to her. She understands that is the great key and foundation for his love for the man. Most ladies believe that this expensive gift can make a man stick no matter what.

The problem only comes in when the man is addicted to sex. The lady may have offered the man to her fullest, but if the man is so much addicted to it then it will be very easy for him to cheat. 

Men you will forgive me to say this, a man can get this expensive gift from anyone who offers it. Especially, when a man is addicted to such an act he will not think twice when another lady offers it to him. This is a great problem that makes most men cheat in their relationships. Sadly, it is very hard to talk with a lady and tell her that you are addicted to sex.

Most of the men will hide this truth and just keep on cheating. When it comes to such a problem only a man himself can control this and solve it at his own will. No will change the man if he cannot decide to change this.

4. When The Girl Does Not Offer Sex.

Oh! This is another sensitive thing that happens in between walls. It is a very sensitive issue that always occurs indoors. Note this, the main reason why most of the men date is to have someone who can offer companionship. 

Men have feelings and desires that drive them to a certain lady whom they have an interest in. The interest usually comes out as a result of feelings, love, and lust. In most cases, men fall in love with a lady because of the lust he has over that lady. 

I believe love usually develops later after some time. A few percentages of men fall in love at the first sight. Listen up; don’t let a man tell you he is in love with you just at the first sight. Leave such fantasies in fiction and movies.

The moment a man sees a lady the first thing that always reveals up is the beauty of such a lady. Her beauty is the first thing that is always portrayed to a man. Such a magnificent beauty that a lady brings forth to a man results to lust during the first day. We all know what lust drives us into. 

When a lady fails to offer sex to a man for a long time it will actually drive him away. Ladies, let no man tell you that he is not after sex. No matter how long it might take he will one day request it. When he requests it and you end up denying him, and he finds someone else who is ready to offer it to him, it won’t be very hard for him to cheat.

Some ladies offer sex to keep their men because they know without it, it will actually drive the man away. Something I want to tell ladies is that if you are not ready to offer sex to a man then, don’t engage in a relationship. You cannot tell me that you want to date then you are not ready to give it out. Let no man tell you he will stay with you without asking for sex. No matter how long it might take he will eventually ask for it.

I would like to add something. Men are easily aroused when they see something that pleases them. The physical appearance of the lady is a big blow! Now a lady like you keeping a man without it, will it really hold him from taking advantage of what he sees?

5. Peer Pressure.

I have to speak the truth here. Men may not be willing to cheat on their ladies anymore. The problem will come in when they have bad friends. These Friends are the ones who advise them to do the wrong things. 

Most of these allies may have the habit of cheating on their lovers. A man who is honest might get corrupted by his friends. He also may be influenced by what he sees people doing. This usually happens to men who are not assertive. Men who cannot take a stand in their lives are the ones who are always influenced to cheat on their ladies.

I may not have the intention of cheating but the way I see the world around me, everyone has a side chick. When I look at my closest friend he is having more than two ladies and his life is damn awesome. He keeps on telling me how amazing it is to have more than one lady. He comes in mostly when I have been frustrated by my lady.

“Hey come on bro, why should you stress yourself with her yet you can get side chick. When the main is not available for you, you can make use of the side chick. I can help you to play smart and she won’t even realize it. Come on bro, you can do this.”

You see the conversation the way it goes. A man can easily cheat because of this influence from his closest friend. That is where he decides to cheat on his lady because of peer pressure.

6. For Body county.

We have those men who have the habit of counting the number of women they have laid in their beds.

Let me say if I have a goal to sleep with 50 women this year, I will have to make sure that I have sex with 50 women this year. It doesn't matter whether I'm dating or not.

This is one of the things that make men cheat on their partners. In most cases, they usually think that if they manage to have sex with men women they will feel proud for doing so.

You can find a group of men discussing the number of women they have slept with and they feel so good about it. 

Those who are having the least body count will feel bad about this and they will also find themselves cheating on their partners for them to hit the body count they want.

I have thought of adding this app because I heard guys talking about it and many agreed that that is the other reason that men do cheat on their lovers.

7. Some men do cheat on their partners because they are used to cheating.

We have those who find it exciting to cheat on their partners. These are the men who are used to cheating and they find it very hard for them to be in their relationship without cheating.

In my other relationship blog Her Beauty I talked about the reasons why some men can't stick to one woman. Check out to know why some men can't stick with one woman.

You might like this: Why Can't Men Stick To One Woman (+ how to make them stick)

So, we have those men who feel that cheating is in their nature and they can't stop no matter what happens.

I have a friend who told me that he finds it so hard to settle with one woman, he is used to cheating and that is affecting him so much because he told me that he is in love with the woman he has currently.

The only thing I told him is,

"If you really want to stop cheating the first you should do is to talk to your partner about it. She might get mad at you but if she really loves you you will all sit down together and figure out a way of solving that problem:

So, if a man is used to cheating it will be very hard for him to stop cheating. That is what some women keep on saying, a cheater will always be a cheater.

Anyway, I don't agree with that because all people have the ability to change.

For those who feel that cheating is in their nature, it will be very hard for them to stop cheating.

I want to conclude by saying something very significant that everyone should take into consideration. I know there maybe thousands of reasons why men cheat in relationships, but you have to understand that cheating is not the right choice to solve this problem. Cheating is just adding another burden to yourself.

 Do you know that you may think that cheating may perhaps solve your problems in the relationship but instead make it worse than you ever thought it could be? The only thing you have to do if there is a problem in a relationship sit down with the two of you and try to figure out where did you guys went wrong and correct it. 

If you would like more relationship articles don't forget to visit my new relationship blog Her Beauty. I promise you that you will never be disappointed by the articles I share in this blog.

Anyway, try to understand one another in every kind of way. This is the only way you can solve every problem that arises in a relationship but not by cheating.

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