How To Turn Your PAIN Into A PURPOSE

How To Turn Your PAIN Into A PURPOSE

In this article, I will share how to turn your pain into purpose. You can channel any pain and use it to your advantage.

Before I share what you should do to turn your pain into a purpose you have to know something about pain.

Feelings and emotions are energy that revolves within us.

The pain you are feeling is an energy that you may think it’s draining you so much, but you can turn that around.

To be honest, when you feel pain, you won’t be productive, you won’t think straight and your concentration on things that matter is going to change.

Pain is a great distraction and it can also be turned into something amazing.

The pain you are feeling can turn into a purpose and push you through heights you have never imagined.

For that to happen, there are several things you will have to master.

And this article is all about that.

This is how to turn your pain into a purpose;

1. Acknowledge the pain you are feeling.

You can turn your pain into a purpose and passion that will give you meaning in your life.

We have people who use their suffering as a way to find meaning in what they are doing.

What I can tell you is that there is nothing bad or good, it’s all about your mindset.

A good thing can turn into something bad by just the way you perceive it.

The happiness you are feeling can turn out to be a dark feeling within you.

All this can happen because of how you perceive this feeling.

This was all to make you understand that you can turn something from A to B by first acknowledging it.

For you to turn your pain into a purpose you have to accept that you are feeling the pain.

Tell yourself that you are feeling pain, and it’s doing far worst to you and you need to do something about it to change that.

You can’t turn happiness into a dark feeling if you have no idea that you are feeling happy.

That is what I’m talking about.

Acknowledge what you feel and admit that it’s something you are dealing with and this will be the first step for you to turn your pain into a purpose.

2. Develop a positive perspective on your pain.

You are feeling this pain because something amazing left your life. It can be that you lost your loved one, you lost your job, you are heartbroken or it can be that nothing goes your way.

Trust me, I know that the pain you are feeling is not something great at all.

But you can’t turn your pain into purpose if you won’t change how you perceive it.

The second step that you need to take when you want to turn your pain into a purpose is to develop a positive perspective on how you perceive this pain.

You have to convince yourself that you are feeling this pain because of something great that is happening in your life.

There is a change happening within your body and that is why you are feeling this way.

You are going through a big life change and it’s hard for you to comprehend it and that is why you are feeling this way.

When you look at your pain this way, it’s going to help you find a way to turn it into something valuable.

Don’t look at your pain as a feeling that has come to drag you behind, but instead look at it as a feeling that has come to push you through greater heights.

Develop a positive mindset of how you are looking at this pain that you are experiencing now.

The moment you manage to have a positive perspective on this pain that you are feeling then it’s going to be very easy for you to turn your pain into purpose.

If you find that the pain you are feeling has come to improve you and change how you handle everything in your life then you will turn that pain into something productive.

You will use that pain to create, push yourself to achieve more and motivate yourself to become the person you want to be.

If you are in pain because someone broke your heart simply because they thought you are not attractive enough, you are going to use that pain to transform yourself into someone they won’t take their eyes off.

This will happen if you have a positive perspective on how you perceive the pain you are feeling.

Instead of the pain disrupting your life progress it’s going to make you even a better person.

3. Use your pain as an excuse to do better.

You are feeling the pain right now because something is not right in your life.

The is something hurting within you and that is why you feel this pain.

Will you just sit there and do nothing about this pain you are feeling right now?

Do you want to do nothing about it? I’m sure you are reading this article because you want to turn things around.

The pain you are feeling should remind you that there is something greater happening in your life.

If you lost your job, you failed, you didn’t get that golden opportunity you were working on or you were never chosen to do that project you have been working on for the last 3 years this should fuel you to become better.

I mean, you should at that pain as a motivation factor. Let the pain drive you the places you have never been before.

Let the pain be something that will remind you to keep on working on yourself and the things you have been working on for so long.

Don’t let that pain be something that is going to drag you behind again.

You have nothing to lose, you can turn your pain into purpose.

Let the pain remind you that you need the formula to change your life and make things better for yourself.

Aim higher beyond the people you were looking up to. You won’t do that if you won’t use the pain as your motivation factor.

The strategies you will come up with to do things better in your life are going to employ a purpose in your life.

You won’t be the same person again after you have utilized this pain.

That all will be possible because you have used your pain for the better.

4. Be strong in the midst of all this pain.

Turning your pain into a purpose is not an easy thing to do. You are battling with more than just your feelings.

You are creating an angel out of a devil. This is not something easy.

There is a need for you to be stronger than you have ever been before.

The pain is a different energy that you are feeling right now. You are fighting to turn it into something else.

That will also take more energy from you. If you are not strong enough it will be hard for you even to begin turning that pain into purpose because you will be busy fighting the pain.

The pain is enough to crash you into pieces and make you feel so pathetic about yourself.

It can make you feel that you are not strong enough to overcome any challenges you are facing in your life.

When you are struggling so much to handle the pain, it’s going to be very hard for you to turn your pain into purpose.

In fact, it will end up turning you into a loser. You won’t think of fighting anymore.

You will just give up and let the pain control every aspect of your life.

What I’m trying to tell you is that you need to be strong enough for you to be able to turn this pain into a purpose.

It’s not going to be easy, trust me.

You will have to be strong enough to handle the pain as you are trying to turn it into something you would want to use to your advantage.

Conclusion…

You can turn your pain into purpose as long as you are strong enough to handle the pain while you turn it into something else.

There is so much to be done but if you are determined enough then it’s going to be easy for you to turn the pain into something else.

You might like this: Hard work and Determination: They All Bring Success

No one is comfortable with feeling pain, we are all trying our best to avoid it.

But if you are feeling pain because of something that happened in your life, you should consider it as a turning point in your life.

Let the pain you feel give you a new path to follow and improve yourself to be the person you wanted to be.

I hope the tips I have shared in this article will help you turn your pain into purpose.

Thanks for reading. If you have any questions feel free to leave your comment.

See you in my next article.

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