How To Tell You Are Losing Yourself

How To Tell You Are Losing Yourself

If you want to know if you are losing yourself then this is the right article for you.

I will share several things that will enable you to know if you are losing yourself before it’s too late for you to realize it.

When you are losing yourself, you won’t be yourself and some habits are going to change.

The way you will handle yourself and others is going to change very significantly.

It’s better you know early in advance that you are losing yourself so that you can up with a way to stop falling into the dark.

Without wasting time, let me share the things you should expect to see when you are losing yourself.

This is how to tell if you are losing yourself;

1. You no longer feel connected to yourself.

When you are losing yourself this is something you should expect to feel.

You will feel that you are no longer connected to yourself anymore and that the things you do mean nothing to you.

Something that used to make you so happy when you were doing it, but right now it doesn’t give you any sense of fulfilment.

Everything you do don’t evoke any feelings that you used to experience.

You feel disconnected from yourself and this is something that is driving you crazy.

When you are losing yourself, this is something you will experience. You can’t be losing yourself and expect to be feeling your old self.

A strange feeling of disconnection from yourself will appear and give you nightmares.

Once you feel disconnected from yourself and nothing makes sense the rest of the things will start to appear.

2. You don’t have to focus on what matters.

This is how to tell you are losing yourself.

When you are losing yourself you will fail to focus on what matters.

You will find out that you no longer focus on your passion or your life purpose.

The moment you will be losing yourself nothing will matter to you because you are no longer yourself.

Don’t expect that it will be possible for you to focus on your passion while you are losing yourself.

If you are losing yourself, you are losing everything you stand for and believe in.

You won’t have the time to think straight and focus on things that you care about.

If you were working on a project that meant something to you then you will let it go.

This is what will happen when you are losing yourself.

The moment you find yourself not focused on what you care about and you aren’t bothered at all this should tell you that you are losing yourself.

3. You suddenly don’t take care of yourself.

When you are losing yourself this is something else you are going to experience.

The moment you suddenly don’t take care of yourself anymore and don’t put any effort to change that, this should tell you that you are losing yourself.

Taking care of yourself has something to do with the connection to yourself.

If this connection is severed there is no way you will feel like you need to take care of yourself.

You won’t even remember that you have to clean yourself and wear clean clothes.

Your personal hygiene is going to decrease, you are going to hurt yourself intentionally and you won’t put any effort to get yourself from uncomfortable conditions.

If this is something you are experiencing and to be honest you were not that kind of a person then know that you are losing yourself.

When you are losing yourself, you will no longer be yourself and everything good that was shaped by your personality is going to change.

4. You forsake meaningful connections.

When you are losing yourself you will forsake meaningful connections.

This starts with your family, your partner and your friends. You will suddenly cut off these connections.

You will start cutting off the connections to people you care about by pushing them away.

This will happen because you are no longer yourself and you won’t know the meaning of your connections to them.

You will handle your partner bad and you won’t even care to apologize.

The way you look at your partner has now changed. You won’t find him or her as the person you used to love before.

Now that you are losing yourself, he or she will feel like a person you never knew before.

You have to know that you will be losing connection to yourself. That is what happens when you are losing yourself.

The other thing is that you will start isolating yourself from your friends and family.

You won’t get them closer to you because you feel no joy in letting them be around you.

The only thing you will care about is being by yourself.

These people you used to care about and love so much will mean nothing when you are losing yourself.

The part of you that used to care about these people faded away.

5. You find it hard to make the right decisions.

When you lose yourself, it will be hard for you to make the right decisions.

The moment you find that making small decisions is harder for you and yet you used to make them with ease then know that you are losing yourself.

Making simple decisions about your life should not be something that should make you think so much.

You are thinking so much about what you should eat in the morning when this is something that never used to bother you at all.

The other thing is that instead of making the right decision, for you now the wrong ones look right.

You can’t even tell the difference between good and bad decisions because you are not yourself at all.

If you find it hard to make the right decisions or you think so much to make small decisions then this should tell you that you are losing yourself.

You are disconnected from your core, so you find it hard to decide the right things to do.

This should tell you that you are losing yourself.

6. You turn out to be a messy person.

The moment you suddenly become a disorganized person this should tell you that you are losing yourself.

When you lose yourself, it will be very hard for you to focus on organizing any part of your life.

You will be busy trying to figure out what is happening to you and at the same time you will fail to focus on anything that matters.

For someone to be organized her or she has to be connected to himself or herself.

The things that he or she will plan to do will always be influenced by his or her personality.

When you are losing yourself, you won’t even know the kind of person you are because you are not yourself.

This will end up messing up every part of your life.

Conclusion…

Before you conclude that you are losing yourself by just focusing on a single part of this article you have to read the whole article.

Having one issue that I have shared in this article doesn’t necessarily mean that you are losing yourself.

But if you have more than 3 signs that I have shared in this article then this is clear that you are losing yourself.

The main thing that should tell you that you are losing yourself is being disconnected from yourself.

If you have found out that you are losing yourself, you should find a way to get yourself back.

Without doing so, you will lose the whole of yourself and won’t even feel like you exist anymore.

You might like this: Do You Feel Like You Don’t Exist? Here’s Why

You will feel like you are living in someone else’s life and this is going to destroy everything in your life.

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment.

See you in my next article.

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